To Forgive or Not Forgive- A Biblical Perspective
When we think about forgiveness, depending on what side of it you are on will determine what your perspective will be. Everyone has had a situation in their lives where there has been an offense. There have been wounds of every kind. Physical, mental, emotional, and psychological. There have been many injustices and betrayals and it just plain hurts. People want and need to be heard and understood as they tell their stories.
In the realm of human interactions, the concept of forgiveness stands as a pivotal and profound virtue. From a biblical perspective, the act of forgiveness holds immense significance, shaping our relationship with God and others. The question of whether to forgive or not is a profound and soul-searching matter that echoes through the pages of Scripture.
The Bible repeatedly emphasizes the necessity of forgiveness as an integral part of a believer's life. Yeshua in His teachings, underscored the importance of forgiving others, not just once or twice, but continually and unconditionally. In Matthew 18:21-22, when asked by Kefa (Peter) about the limits of forgiveness, Yeshua responded, "I do not say to you seven times, but seventy-seven times." This powerful statement highlights that forgiveness is not merely an optional choice; it is a relentless and boundless act of love and mercy.
Moreover, Yeshua exemplified forgiveness through His own life and death. While on the cross, suffering excruciating pain, He uttered, "Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing" (Luke 23:34). This profound act of forgiveness even in the face of cruelty and injustice demonstrates the divine love that we, as followers of the Messiah, are called to embody.
However, the decision to forgive is not always easy. Deep emotional wounds caused by betrayal, hurt, or trauma can make forgiveness seem like an impossible task. Yet, the Bible urges believers not to harbor bitterness or seek revenge but to extend forgiveness as God has forgiven us (Ephesians 4:31-32).
This will take using our power of choice. We must choose to let the other person or persons go. Holding onto unforgiveness and bitterness will only hurt the one who is walking in this. This also takes a level of humility and maturity. This is no easy task, but it does come down to choice. The offender is not offended, and neither are they consumed with bitterness. Walking in bitterness and unforgiveness will, in fact, open up a door to other situations that are unexpected. 1. It causes sickness and 2. It gives a place to the devil. 3. It also serves as a barrier to the blessings of God. Yeshua wants us to walk in freedom-think about it. Forgiveness is your superpower.
It is essential to understand that forgiveness does not excuse or condone the wrongdoings of others. Rather, it releases us from the burden of carrying resentment and allows God to work in our hearts, bringing healing and restoration. In Matthew 6:14-15, Yeshua explicitly states, "For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins." This solemn truth emphasizes the interconnectedness between our ability to forgive others and receiving God's forgiveness in our lives.
At the end of the day, the biblical perspective on forgiveness is unequivocal. To forgive is an act of obedience to God's command, a reflection of His boundless mercy, and a pathway to experiencing the fullness of His love and grace. Although forgiveness may not be an easy road to traverse, through the Messiah’s empowering presence and His example, we can find the strength and courage to embrace forgiveness and allow it to transform our lives for the glory of God. Let us, therefore, choose the path of forgiveness, for it leads us closer to the heart of our Heavenly Father and fosters a spirit of reconciliation and love among His people.
